How Should a Man View a Woman? Reclaiming What’s Been Lost truthsum.org

Something is deeply broken in how men view women today—and it didn’t happen by accident.

From a young age, boys are bombarded with sexualized images, while being told their natural desires are toxic. They’re torn between attraction and shame—instinct and guilt—leaving many confused, isolated, and addicted to fantasy.

This distortion creates extremes: some grow apathetic, seeing women as objects; others dive deeper into unreality, seeking fulfillment from pixels. Either way, young men are losing touch with true intimacy.

Scripture warns: “The lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes… is not of the Father” (1 John 2:16). This isn’t just sin—it’s an identity crisis.

The hunger for purpose is real. Voices like Jordan Peterson and Andrew Tate rise because men are looking for direction. But true masculinity isn’t control—it’s Christlike sacrifice.

“Love your wives, as Christ also loved the church” (Ephesians 5:25). Real manhood leads with love, honor, and vision.

God made men and women for unity—not domination or fantasy, but covenant.

Young men need to know: their desire isn’t a curse—it’s a calling. Their strength isn’t for conquest—it’s for sacrifice.

They were made for more than scrolling.
They were made for something sacred.